Silence
My father used to say,
"Superior people never make long visits,
have to be shown Longfellow's grave
nor the glass flowers at Harvard.
Self reliant like the cat --
that takes its prey to privacy,
the mouse's limp tail hanging like a shoelace from its mouth --
they sometimes enjoy solitude,
and can be robbed of speech
by speech which has delighted them.
The deepest feeling always shows itself in silence;
not in silence, but restraint."
Nor was he insincere in saying, "`Make my house your inn'."
Inns are not residences.
"Superior people never make long visits,
have to be shown Longfellow's grave
nor the glass flowers at Harvard.
Self reliant like the cat --
that takes its prey to privacy,
the mouse's limp tail hanging like a shoelace from its mouth --
they sometimes enjoy solitude,
and can be robbed of speech
by speech which has delighted them.
The deepest feeling always shows itself in silence;
not in silence, but restraint."
Nor was he insincere in saying, "`Make my house your inn'."
Inns are not residences.
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Marianne Moore
The poem is interesting because
even though we get what the father is saying in direct speech it seems more
like the poet’s mockery of her father’s notion that intellect can develop only
in solitude, by shutting oneself from society and its affairs. The poem is also
about the suppression of expression.
‘Superior people
never make long visits,
Have to be shown
Longfellow’s grave
Nor the glass flowers
at Harvard. ’
He is emphatically telling the
poet that superior people will ‘never’ waste time ‘making long visits’ or join
institutions (platforms for socialization and learning) because what is taught
there is not worthwhile. ‘Longfellow’s grave’ means that the knowledge imparted
there is obsolete; it can also mean the burial of poetry i.e. expression. The ‘glass
flowers’ imply that all that erudition does not serve any practical purposes
except to show off; they might also refer to poetry/art as mere aesthetic
trifle having no practical value.
He says Superior people are self-
reliant like cats. This particular comparison especially seems like a mockery
of his idea about the self-reliance of the so called superior people. They are
intellectual recluses who ‘prey’ upon knowledge in their private, comfort zones
without sharing their ideas and being exposed to those of others- like how ‘the
cat takes its prey to privacy’.
‘They sometimes enjoy solitude’-
which means they do not really enjoy their solitude always but do enjoy once in
a long while. But even then they are simply savouring what others have written
and said without putting in their own thinking. They get so influenced by the
thoughts of others that they completely forget that they have a mind of their
own- they are ‘robbed of speech/by speech which has delighted them.’
As I said before the poem is also
about the suppression of expression. It can also be read as a feminist text
which is about an authoritative father dictating his daughter. The father says:
‘The deepest feeling
always shows itself in silence;
not in silence, but
restraint.’
Here silence refers to one’s
preference- not to expresses what one feels. Restraint refers to one’s forceful
suppression of the urge to express. In a way he is telling her that she would
better not speak even if she wants to, that he knows what she needs. He finally
says ‘make my house your inn.’ He asserts that it is his house and her inn. She
is like a guest who will be provided for but who will not have a say. This is
the reason why he also discourages her from socializing which might trigger
individual thinking, feeling, learning and thereby lead to liberation.
I’ve always liked this poem and have heard many interpretations, often written by people who were offended by the mention of ‘superior people’.
ReplyDeleteI’d like to share my view. Being my first time posting on the Internet, this might not be the way to go about it but here goes…
My father used to say,
The author’s father lived in the world before telephones and automobiles. To understand and appreciate what he said, I believe his thinking should be interpreted as if he lived in the 21st Century. In his time most of the population was barely, if at all literate.
"Superior people
While many today would find this term offensive, he was referring to people whose interests extend beyond their immediate family, neighborhood, and circle of acquaintances. In his time most of the population was barely, if at all literate and their focus was on trying to survive both financially and physically.
Superior people refers to those who are better off than most and see themselves as the authors of their own lives.
never make long visits,
In the 19th century it was common to spend one or more nights when traveling more than a few miles. Now, as in the past, the superior person leaves before his welcome wears thin. He values his time; many other experiences await him.
have to be shown Longfellow's grave
nor the glass flowers at Harvard.
The superior person would have already discovered these things on his own.
Self-reliant like the cat --
that takes its prey to privacy,
the mouse's limp tail hanging like a shoelace from its mouth --
they sometimes enjoy solitude,
and can be robbed of speech
by speech which has delighted them.
The deepest feeling always shows itself in silence;
not in silence, but restraint."
They take time to savor and fully appreciate a new and welcome discovery. Knowing that a first impression might be inaccurate, they pause to reflect before commenting.
Nor was he insincere in saying, "`Make my house your inn'."
Inns are not residences.
He wanted the visit to be just long enough to share ideas and enjoy each other’s company. The guest was not welcome to merely occupy space and act as though he were in his own home— his time was too precious to waste on unproductive talk.
Thanx Allan for the apt interpretation.
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